There are various threads around this topic here, often with spontaneous and ill considered replys.
Thought that some of you might like to give some advice to those upset with someone before they post.
For my contribution/ rant :hand: :
1. Members spend real money and real free time camming. It is never ok to take this lightly, or to make value judgements about what is being spent. For some members 200 tokens is alot, for some 10 000 tokens is not much at all.
Camming can be an expensive game to play.
Some members will spend more time or money than they should on their favourites. Both member and model should keep this in mind.
Models should not be taking from members where it results in breaking agreements, trust, or in general damaging their experience of camming. Choosing to spend as a member can take many years to develop, furthermore the long term loss of losing a member too early can result in years of lost/ lower spending. The member may also chose to shift spending from whole groups of models because of one. As a model breaking trust is super bad for business, and not just for yourself.
2. Models are real women, not machines or toys.
Expect mistakes, flaws in character, and problems with experiences every now and then: sometimes things wont work out as you are expecting as a member. I would not assume that because things don't work out that you deserve some kind of concession/ refund. Mistakes can work in a members favour too, and add to some of the most memorable experiences you will encounter.
This means that you can expect an unpleasant reaction if you act badly, lack class, or treat those you visit as an object.
You should not be taking extra attention without some intent to spend (Sometimes it is ok to contribute in other ways, but never exclusively).
Spoiling a model's good mood is not recommended if you want to get the best out of your time with her.
3. There are real people on each side of the camera. Some types of behaviour are simply not ok.
Thought that some of you might like to give some advice to those upset with someone before they post.
For my contribution/ rant :hand: :
1. Members spend real money and real free time camming. It is never ok to take this lightly, or to make value judgements about what is being spent. For some members 200 tokens is alot, for some 10 000 tokens is not much at all.
Camming can be an expensive game to play.
Some members will spend more time or money than they should on their favourites. Both member and model should keep this in mind.
Models should not be taking from members where it results in breaking agreements, trust, or in general damaging their experience of camming. Choosing to spend as a member can take many years to develop, furthermore the long term loss of losing a member too early can result in years of lost/ lower spending. The member may also chose to shift spending from whole groups of models because of one. As a model breaking trust is super bad for business, and not just for yourself.
2. Models are real women, not machines or toys.
Expect mistakes, flaws in character, and problems with experiences every now and then: sometimes things wont work out as you are expecting as a member. I would not assume that because things don't work out that you deserve some kind of concession/ refund. Mistakes can work in a members favour too, and add to some of the most memorable experiences you will encounter.
This means that you can expect an unpleasant reaction if you act badly, lack class, or treat those you visit as an object.
You should not be taking extra attention without some intent to spend (Sometimes it is ok to contribute in other ways, but never exclusively).
Spoiling a model's good mood is not recommended if you want to get the best out of your time with her.
3. There are real people on each side of the camera. Some types of behaviour are simply not ok.
