No it's not the thank yous so much but I miss the days when I knew the models had husbands and BF's that we just called Bob, joked around had fun. I sent thousands of dollars western union to make sure rent got paid for them. It embarrassed me back then the gratitude they showed.
So you are mad and nostalgic for the choices you made to give someone money for their attention?
Painful Truth. When you hear The The Cyrkle - Red Rubber Ball and REO singing Time for me to fly on repeat in your head, in a chatroom I take it seriously now
Most of the models here do do stuff like that. What in God's name are you talking about man? You're sounding a bit off your damn rocker to me.
This. One of my most favorite people is retired and has a very strict budget.
Maybe because we are all unique individuals and do things differently than someone else? There are many cam rooms who couldn't care less about a person's orgasm.
You make excellent points, as a regular, we see the big tippers come and go, We know what makes our model, smile, cry or laugh. Happy sad etc. When we see her eyes light up and a she actually swoons over a transient big tipper, that complicates things. You are no longer her buddy.
*sigh*
That's honesty, and you are absolutely right. Thing is I wager all your regulars know they are important. I can't say that about the last 10 rooms I tipped in.
After I hit post, that very thought occurred to me -- I am always excited to see them and each person is profusely thanked or I'll chat in PM if they are also a fan club member. I ask about their families, give advice, check on them when they are sick or if I haven't seen them in a while. I can do this because 1) I actually care about them and 2) the room is rarely rocking more than 50 people at a time.
I think in this day of labels asking about a customers family qualifies as the Girl friend Experience 😂
Perhaps now. Wasn't that way when I started on CB 10 years ago. My regulars have been active tippers for almost that entire decade. It's only natural we would get to know each other outside of our naughty bits. I also not a hardcore model by choice. That makes for lots of room to have conversations that aren't centered around the last time I was spit-roasted by two dudes.
Remember a place called WEBCAMNow? No money involved back then, gorgeous older lady from the east coast came on a couple times a month, she got a ridiculous following for back then, all these new viewers each week directing her telling her how to be...She stopped, dead silence and looked directly into her cam, and uttered these famous words. "I'm not here for your pleasure, I'm here for mine" 😂😂 That statement personified cam girls when you started.
I had an account there. It's now monetized. I have been married since I was 18 years old. Never cheated. Wasn't very promiscuous before that and tried CB when I got sick of working for someone else's dream and not getting anywhere close to making my own dreams come true.
I got your nuances loud and clear 😂 We were grateful and it was actually fun. I'd see a "disgruntled" viewer just say nasty terrible things to a model get silenced or kicked and on went the show. I always wondered how a person could get that jaded watching beautiful women. I don't wonder that today.
The first cam girl I ever tipped, was on webcamnow before they monetized. Cute little thing, said she was hungry and didn't have any money. I pm'd her and said I would call pizza hut near her and send a pizza...She ended up being 70 miles away in a small town and were were close friends for 5 years b4 she got married. Nuances
It's still fun. There's just 10 times the amount of bullshit than there used to be. Most of my viewers tend to be 55+ or older, perhaps they just act better in general compared to the young bucks who still get a stiffy when the wind blows.
Do you really think there are that many viewers that actually tip under 30? I think they lie? And that's the other thing, a model that clearly, hasn't seen 24 for the better part of 10 years of course puts age at 24. Honesty goes a LONG way with gentlemen.
Preaching to the choir my man. The only thing I am never honest about is where I live when someone new comes in -- none of your business. Not here to hook up with you.
DIng Ding Ding We have a winner folks. Set expectations. Can you imagine me trying to buy a model a pizza today? 🤦♂️🤦♂️
I can think of 7 off the top of my head who would gladly give you their PayPal info to make that happen because it's all about the grift.
times have changed tho, 5 years ago I knew the real name and address of every lady I sent an Amazon gift to because of screwups.
🙂 I had a guy ask me to do a JOI video once. He begged me, offered everything under the sun. I could have taken his money. Never do the video or procrastinated for months on end to keep stringing him along if nothing more than to get that 100 token tip asking where the video is.
