How often do members ask you to meet/fuck in real life?

[yummybrownfox]

Guy, I know this thread is really up your alley, but you've reached your question limit to this thread.

It's amazing. I don't think Guy could ever run out of questions. You answer one, and here he comes with another...

 

[Pure_emotion]

For many guys it's because it's part of a fantasy and they know that it will never happen. A camgirl, especially from another country is "safe". Guys that are awkward or commitment phobic would find it attractive

YUP . Full blown fantasy land.

 

[PrincessSnowAngel]

i get asked almost every day, i tell them sure if they dont mind that my boyfriend will pick them up from the airport and get to know them over a long drive on the many miles of dirt roads and remote woods in my area. and they have to like hunting and guns because thats the only way to win him over. no one has decided to further question my willingness to meet after that.

 

[Violet Dawn]

Probably 1 in every 10 members. Serious ones would be like 1 in every 25.

 

[SaiyaJordan]

I actually met two models from the streamate this year. Both I've known for years. Both are really good friends, but I completely fell for one of them. We kinda talked about getting together but she didn't wanna start dating anyone, but she ended up going back to her baby daddy. I'm completely fine with it. Even though she hasn't exactly said it to me (i think she's afraid to lose me as friend/customer if she does say she is back with him) and avoids saying it's her boyfriend to me, but she says she's back with him on social media. She has said I would be the only exception and would date from the site (before she got back with her bf and recently told me I am the one person she can count on. Ugh lol
I know I should move on. She's still my friend, but I wonder if I wait it can happen. But that's wishful thinking.

 

[Phoenix4987]

Ugh lol. I know I should move on. She's still my friend, but I wonder if I wait it can happen. But that's wishful thinking.

Nah man, don't wait! You gotta keep moving. You can still do your thing while she's figuring stuff out. Nothing wrong with keeping your options open.

I'm kinda in a similar spot because I asked this chick out again and she hasn't completely told me to fuck off .. But she's more reluctant because of some of the shit I did in the past. Which I can't blame her. I get it.

But at the same time, I'm not gonna stop my life while she's fumbling around with the idea in her head. I already said everything I had to say and she knows what's on the table. So there's not really much else I can do but live my life.

If she's interested, let her come to you. Don't keep chasing her around.

 

[marvelb0y]

It takes a lot of effort to develop the level of trust for this type of question to have any chance of success. So basically, by the time you ask, it should be like proposing to someone to marry you. You would have already discussed this idea indirectly and are almost certain they would say yes. I have never been turned down for a meeting with a cam model because I only ask the ones I know for sure will agree.

 

[AudriTwo]

The worst is when it's a member who has been a loyal regular for quite sometime. Usually when they ask and press me on it, I can be all most certain I will never see them again. I killed the fantasy when I decline their proposal to actually fuck.

 

[Rose]

I get upwards of 20 messages per day on snapchat asking to meet up and fuck, and probably 3 or so a day on instagram. I used to get them constantly when I was more active on tumblr, but that stopped when I switched to only posting to tumblr through instagram.

 

[Ambers Troll]

I wonder what percentage are serious and what percentage are all talk... If every model said yes, how many would actually show up?

 

[Ambers Troll]

Probably 1 in every 10 members. Serious ones would be like 1 in every 25.

..missed this one... answers my question somewhat...thanks.

I suspect only a percentage of that 1 in 25 would follow through if invited to though.

 

[SaffronBurke]

..missed this one... answers my question somewhat...thanks.

I suspect only a percentage of that 1 in 25 would follow through if invited to though.

As someone who legit used to hook up with strangers from adultfriendfinder, I can confirm this. I had so many dudes who wanted to talk about fucking me, but would never hash out details, or we'd make plans and they'd never show. It shouldn't be that hard for a girl to get some random D, especially when you're the "fuck em and send em home" type. The percentage of "just wanna talk about it" guys is higher on camsites, but, dude, pay me. I don't care about dicks for free these days.

 

[SuzySirenXO]

I had someone ask me last night after a show.... I typically get AT LEAST one request to meet or to fuck per day. This one was super serious though.

 

[Guy]

I had someone ask me last night after a show.... I typically get AT LEAST one request to meet or to fuck per day. This one was super serious though.

What did he say?

 

[SuzySirenXO]

What did he say?

"how can I be part of your bedroom fun"
"how local is [insert area code]"
"4-5 hours away isn't so bad"


If this is anyone's idea of "pillow talk" after they've shot a load of jizzum into a paper towel....I highly suggest reassessing the situation.

A simple thank you and see ya again soon will suffice.

 

[Guy]

"how can I be part of your bedroom fun"
"how local is [insert area code]"
"4-5 hours away isn't so bad"

 

[TaylorBlanc]

The other day I even got asked if I was a Melbourne escort. I guess they were hoping I was local. I get comments here and there.

 

[Johnny_B]

I've never asked to meet a model. However, one model has asked me to meet her... and I agreed. Sometime during the coming fall, so it'll be a few months.

 

[Keziah]

Every single time I cam, there is at least one.

Streamate doesn't seem to be too bad, but a lot of guys on niteflirt seem very persistent. I know there are some dommes who will do in-person sessions, so I don't really mind if they ask that, but when they expect me to fly to see them or spend an entire weekend with them 2 minutes into a phone call?....yeah no.

 

[SuzySirenXO]

and today I've been given personal email and phone number and have him asking for more details and telling me yet again that he'd drive here. NOPE. not on your fucking life man.

 

[justjoinedtopost]

I've never asked to meet a model. However, one model has asked me to meet her... and I agreed. Sometime during the coming fall, so it'll be a few months.

Sounds like it would make a good thread.

 

[Johnny_B]

Sounds like it would make a good thread.

It might. I don't want to elaborate too much, but we've been in contact for about six months now. We know each others real names, addresses, we've exchanged phone numbers and we chat outside the cam site almost daily.

 

[rstanton]

At the end of a c2c private, a Colombian model asked if I thought she was pretty. Of course I said yes. Then she asked me "Is it possible that you may visit my country one day?" I told her, "I don't think so."

I doubt she was all that serious about it.

 

[Ambers Troll]

The other day I even got asked if I was a Melbourne escort. I guess they were hoping I was local.

I never visit Melbourne without an escort, it is a big city.

 

[Guy]

and today I've been given personal email and phone number and have him asking for more details and telling me yet again that he'd drive here. NOPE. not on your fucking life man.

Why didnt you ban him or report him for violating SM's TOS?

 

[SuzySirenXO]

Why didnt you ban him or report him for violating SM's TOS?

Wasn't on SM, was via indy stuff and until he gets overly annoying with it, I'm not immediately ban happy.

I'mma big girl...I got this....

 

[SaffronBurke]

Why didnt you ban him or report him for violating SM's TOS?

Even if it were on SM, it's not exactly a violation for a member to give models info. They're more concerned about models trying to direct business elsewhere than they are with members trying to get hook ups that'll never happen.

 

[Alex_M_21]

All the time! The worst is when they start sending you Dms on twitter and to your business email. It's more annoying when they're very big tippers as you then have to reply and tactfully say no without stopping them from coming to your cam!

 

[Chrisjr333]

As a member I've never asked to meet up with a model, but I've had a model suggest it, since she always visits the city I work in.

 

[BelleThacher]

Ive been proposed to lol many times usually by greys on CB. I cant count the number of times ive repeated "escorting is not a service I offer" I had a guy I had to block on MV, sorry had to block his multiple accounts on MV cause he had a couple accounts, after he had bought both my KIK and my # for a month and just kept trying to convince me to meet up with him, he also contributed $200 to my fund me fund so he spent alot of money and I felt bad blocking him but he was getting to the point of harassment after numerous warnings. Ive also had photos sent to me of wads of cash saying "could be all yours BB just meet me for it" and like a week later Id get another wad of cash pic, the best was when it was the same photo, like dude you sent me that last week lol answers still no.