Im being HARRASED by another model

[Msratuelita]

So, she is basically my ex boyfriend’s actual gf, and since they started dating shes been making posts about me, saying im ab*sive bc i still had content with him on my Onlyfans (which ofc he consented and verified to be on, but decided to delete his id and report the videos on the site which got me flagged)
Insulting me constantly doing body, shaming and insulting me because im white and curly (tbh that one was just stupid)
She post comments saying that she wants to harm me find me and beat me
Asks on her facebook who’s available to throw some hate on x towards me.

Also i suspect on her sending reports to my streaming platforms (got banned for age verification that never happened to me before in over 4years)


HELP WITH ADVICE PLEASE! of course i am proceeding with the law, but it takes a while.
Kinda scares me that her hate could make me go through another age verification or flag in onlyfans.


I can deal with insults, been through worst, but the fact that; she says she wants to harm me or beat me
She being a model and also monitoring on a studio and previously having issues with my account after she appeared on my life

 

[Vixxen81]

I really sincerely doubt it's his girlfriend, it's him. And there's nothing you can do about it other than block every avenue he has to contact you and maybe not use your face as an avatar when posting about being stalked and threatened on a forum where you're asking for help? For all we know you are him posting as her to see what roadblocks we would offer in an attempt to get around them.

 

[Msratuelita]

If there’s anyway to verify my identity here i would love to. I like using my face as avatar.


I dont think he’s grabbing her twitter and facebook account and ask her friends to go insult me on my medias and force her to film herself insulting me.

I never sayed Stalked, i Said Harassed.
She is not following me irl
She’s never been to places i frequently go.


She is posting threats on social media and even if she’s not following me irl we live in the same city.
violent messages that cause me distress
Damaging my reputation by saying i am an ab*ser and videos of herself doing body shaming and other various insults.


She is blocked but as said before she is sending her friends to shit on my medias and i just cant go through all her friends list and block everyone, its exhausting.

 

[KingMarti]

File a police report every time it happens. Only other option is just ignore it. That's basically the 2 options as far as I know, well the 3rd is reply, but I dont recommend that because it'll just escalate things.

 

[MarieElise]

Yeah I guess my first thing would be a restraining order or calling the police. To get a restraining order on someone near you, or someone far away, all you have to do is prove to the judge that they are causing you emotional harm. So if you have clips of her straight up threatening you, whack her with one of those. Then make sure if you ever catch a case yourself, you don't end up in the same prison as her. Unless you're confident, you'd have more friends than her on the cell block. Or that you could take her, and any big friends she might have.

Ofcourse if she doesn't know your address, getting a restraining order on her, would give it to her. So if you think she's not just a giant limp dick, then RO. But if you think she'd actually clock you and go long-term psycho over it, you might wanna avoid that route.

Not sure if you can sue people in civil court for stuff like that, but that could be an option too. It might not be worth the time and money though. To look into current details on ROs in your area, call the non emergency police line, or check out the local court's website. Some people are dicks. They should be held accountable.

 

[AudriTwo]

Im so sorry this is happening. Best thing to do is block and report every harassing message you get. Depending on your country, you may be able to report them for harassment. Be sure you have screenshots/evidence.

Pineapplesupport.org
For any resources for therapy incase the level of harassment is effecting your mental well-being