Sorry hun, but this entire thread reads like you met a guy on the internet (you live in different countries) and he was looking for a partner to do couples shows, the end. Now, that might not be true, but we lack the details of what your 'relationship' was (committed? have you ever actually met in person? all long distance? how long were you talking to each other? how did you first meet, privately or through his work account?) and the hints you're dropping read strongly as a guy who was working his professional account looking for a partner for couples shows. Feel free to correct us if that isn't true.
And if it so happens that he actually said 'yeah, you're my long distance girlfriend!' then I'm sorry. You met a douche bag and that sucks. We've all met people who are just looking to use and abuse us--male and female. I've honestly met far more of them outside of sexwork than inside of it though. Sexworkers in general have an outstanding grasp of commitment and boundaries; it's something of an occupational requirement. When we see the rare sexworker who doesn't grasp consent, commitment, or boundaries, we tend to ostracize and think poorly of them, i.e. you can't sit with us.
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The vast majority of customers--based on collective demographic numbers and personal experience--are male. I can count on one hand the number of female clients I've had in the four years I've worked this job, and only one of them was a solo female instead of one half of a couple. Even for male performers this is true--most clients are male and interested in men sexually. Sure, there are female clients, but not many of them.
I've had a helluva lot of dudes claiming to be girls though. They think it'll get them special attention ("see, I'm a girl too!" or "you're more into chicks than dicks, am I right?"), they're into sissification and transformation fetishes (super common actually), etc. 99.9% of them are dirty liars who refuse to turn their cameras on, send real photos, or anything else. And, like Saffron said, chicks don't generally tell strangers on the internet "oh my god you make me so wet!" whether anonymous or not. They just...don't.
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Now we've given you some very nice replies, especially considering that you're being a Grade A Judgemental Cunt ranting about sex workers being 'promiscuous' and implying that it reflects negatively on our personalities and morals that we're in this line of work. Myself and, I presume, many of the other models here are giving you the benefit of the doubt because we recognize you're upset by what happened with this dude, but seriously please lay off the accusations about us all being slags with no sense of common decency. It's obnoxious.
