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[Flextacy]

What can I do if i've been scammed of tokens by a mfc model?

 

[justjoinedtopost]

What can I do if i've been scammed of tokens by a mfc model?

Rant about it in this thread for starters. Or you could go make a new thread in the General Cam Chat section detailing what happened, might get more responses that way.

 

[uncoveredmanhole]

when people say 'what happened to just jerking off?', I have to wonder what reasons they themselves have for having or wanting sex. Apparently they can't relate at all.

 

[uncoveredmanhole]

What can I do if i've been scammed of tokens by a mfc model?

learn how to be less of a chump.

 

[heybarkeep]

I can't stand people that live to be pitied. Always playing the victim card and constantly trying to be seen as weak and incapable of changing their situation. Really aggravating.

Also can't stand people that get wasted every time they drink. Not fun having to babysit.

 

[yummybrownfox]

Also can't stand people that get wasted every time they drink. Not fun having to babysit.

New Year's Eve 2001 (I remember it was the same year as the 9/11 attacks) I was ringing in the new year at Time's Square in NYC, and this girl there was sooo fucking drunk. She vomited...her "friends" were standing there laughing at her...and I just let her rest against my shoulder. I felt bad for her, though I will never understand the appeal of "going out and getting drunk." *shrugs shoulders* Plus, I have a fear of throwing up. So there's that too...

 

[uncoveredmanhole]

another day another bullshit problem with Paxum

my banks assure me any USD sent to me will be automatically converted unless specifically marked 'do not convert'.

yet Paxum refuses to send USD to my account, and tries to tell me they need me to have a USD account for it to work (and they have programmed their submission forms so as to not allow me to do what would work perfectly fine).

How is it exactly that their support and design team know less than a bank teller and yet they try to offer a banking service.

 

[heybarkeep]

New Year's Eve 2001 (I remember it was the same year as the 9/11 attacks) I was ringing in the new year at Time's Square in NYC, and this girl there was sooo fucking drunk. She vomited...her "friends" were standing there laughing at her...and I just let her rest against my shoulder. I felt bad for her, though I will never understand the appeal of "going out and getting drunk." *shrugs shoulders* Plus, I have a fear of throwing up. So there's that too...

I avoided drinking as much as I could from my early twenties until early thirties. I took my job extremely seriously and didn't want to be tired or less than one hundred percent mentally when going in. I'd only drink at social gatherings and mainly in an effort to not be annoyed by those that were drinking. Then I retired, had an early mid life crisis, started hanging out with friends from high school, and started to drink almost daily. Did that for about a year and have recently slowed down considerably. Still go out drinking often but don't really drink enough to get drunk. It's just a really easy way to make new friends and a reason to get out of the house now.

 

[uncoveredmanhole]

The EFT withdrawal feature was initially reinstated for all the countries on that list, however, the processor encountered some difficulties when sending funds to New Zealand and we are currently working together on resolving the issues, after which your country will be re-added to the list.

We appreciate your patience and understanding.
Best Regards.

well how about putting THAT on your informative little blog ya lying fuckwits.

 

[JuliaStorm]

I just signed up at freelunchmoney and i always for some stupid reason belive that this new site will be different and i got a chance not to get crap people that do it just because.
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[GALLERY=media, 2248]IMG_20170329_124607 by JuliaStorm posted Mar 29, 2017 at 12:49 PM[/GALLERY]

 

[ShyCollegeSlut]

I live in a tiny ass town with shitty internet options. I love living here, but the fact that my highest upload speed here is .81 mbps absolutely kills me. I used to make $300/day when I lived at my moms and had a great internet connection, and now I'm barely scraping by.

 

[yummybrownfox]

I just signed up at freelunchmoney and i always for some stupid reason belive that this new site will be different and i got a chance not to get crap people that do it just because.

Do you mean ExtraLunchMoney?

 

[uncoveredmanhole]

I live in a tiny ass town with shitty internet options. I love living here, but the fact that my highest upload speed here is .81 mbps absolutely kills me. I used to make $300/day when I lived at my moms and had a great internet connection, and now I'm barely scraping by.

they don't have satellite internet or anything? (expensive for normal folk, but maybe worth it for that kind of a return)

 

[ShyCollegeSlut]

they don't have satellite internet or anything? (expensive for normal folk, but maybe worth it for that kind of a return)

I only have 2 options. Our local shit internet, or at&t uverse. I have the at&t. I pay for the most expensive plan (supposed to be 12mbps download and idk on upload). I get about 9 download, and .81 upload on good days.

 

[ShyCollegeSlut]

I only have 2 options. Our local shit internet, or at&t uverse. I have the at&t. I pay for the most expensive plan (supposed to be 12mbps download and idk on upload). I get about 9 download, and .81 upload on good days.

I think there may be some satellite also but it's not unlimited so it wouldnt last long broadcasting, doubt it's worth it.

 

[JerryBoBerry]

I think there may be some satellite also but it's not unlimited so it wouldnt last long broadcasting, doubt it's worth it.

Satellite is NOT worth it for sure. Don't even bother. There's WildBlue or HughesNet. Both of them oversell what the satellites can handle for bandwidth. So when kids are home from school, or all summer long, it will be slowed down to slower than dialup speeds. There is also a lag that prevents real time communications. The signal from your computer has to go up to the satellite. From there down to the main company's server. Then your information is sent out to the internet and retrieved. Then that is sent back up and back down to your computer. Because of that time lag you can not use it for talking to someone over VOIP like google hangouts.

The speeds don't allow for video at many times of the day. Even if they did, you still have the lag in your audio part of the stream. And add to that, there's ridiculously small overall usage limitations in their 'fair usage policies.' When my brother had WildBlue, if he went over 4.5GB of data in any prior 30 day rolling period (NOT last month, that means the 30 days prior to NOW at any day), then they also limited his bandwidth to 56kbps until the prior 30 days went back below 4.5GB. In other words you can maybe watch a single Netflix movie in HD per month without going over.

Satellite is horrible beyond words.

Edit to add: My family all live in remote areas. Both my brothers had WildBlue at the same time. I chose to just remain on Dialup. I was always able to download faster and more than them. They hated their satellite internet every second they had it. When high speed finally came to their area, both wrote nasty letters to cancel it.

 

[ShyCollegeSlut]

Satellite is NOT worth it for sure. Don't even bother. There's WildBlue or HughesNet. Both of them oversell what the satellites can handle for bandwidth. So when kids are home from school, or all summer long, it will be slowed down to slower than dialup speeds. There is also a lag that prevents real time communications. The signal from your computer has to go up to the satellite. From there down to the main company's server. Then your information is sent out to the internet and retrieved. Then that is sent back up and back down to your computer. Because of that time lag you can not use it for talking to someone over VOIP like google hangouts.

The speeds don't allow for video at many times of the day. Even if they did, you still have the lag in your audio part of the stream. And add to that, there's ridiculously small overall usage limitations in their 'fair usage policies.' When my brother had WildBlue, if he went over 4.5GB of data in any prior 30 day rolling period (NOT last month, that means the 30 days prior to NOW at any day), then they also limited his bandwidth to 56kbps until the prior 30 days went back below 4.5GB. In other words you can maybe watch a single Netflix movie in HD per month without going over.

Satellite is horrible beyond words.

Edit to add: My family all live in remote areas. Both my brothers had WildBlue at the same time. I chose to just remain on Dialup. I was always able to download faster and more than them. They hated their satellite internet every second they had it. When high speed finally came to their area, both wrote nasty letters to cancel it.

Thanks for the input, definitely decided against it, now.

 

[DonaDiabla]

In all fairness, people have sex for different reasons but many sex workers say this because it has became a bit strange for customers to want more of emotional connection now. Deep emotional intimacy is not what sex work should be about. It is about having sexy fun with hot people and getting paid for it. Sex workers are sexual aids and sexual illusionists only. We are not surrogates for real relationships but many customers get mad when some of us point this out to them.When I started in 2003, no one was bragging about meeting cam models and phone sex operators. No one was broadcasting their undying love for escorts and sugar babies. Customers was out for fun and rarely talked about falling for sex workers. Now, it is shoved down sex workers' throats on every sex worker forum on Earth.I am a member on many sex worker forums and this is becoming a growing problem.

Every week is some sort of weird thread about falling in love with some cam model, escort, sugar baby, phone sex operator, and it is not stopping. If it happen sometimes, I would not have such a problem with this. But it is happening too often. Most of us are not here to cater to the super emotional fragility of the overly emotional needy customer. In addition, many of these customers fall prey to more predatory types. Just saying it is better for both customers and sex workers for them to happily jack off.

when people say 'what happened to just jerking off?', I have to wonder what reasons they themselves have for having or wanting sex. Apparently they can't relate at all.

 

[justjoinedtopost]

Had a dream last night, it woke me up. A little tragic, a little beautiful, and it felt very profound.

I laid there thinking about it for a few minutes. Thought "going to have to study this some more tomorrow, there is some meaning here, need to figure it out". Then I went back to sleep.

Woke up today, it is gone. Can't remember a damn thing other than the wow feeling.

 

[DonaDiabla]

I am still pissed off at all of my ex-sugar daddies' responses of "love and devotion". I was very enraged after receiving 3 page "love" letter straight out Wuthering Heights or Jane Eyre from my last sugar daddy. I received my last allowance from him and that grotesque letter.You see, there is no loyally in the sugar bowl and everyone knows this. So, when sugar daddies talk about love, marriage, or moving in together. This is the kiss of death for your allowance, gifts, property and relationship. Either this alleged lovesickness is real or illusion but I know it is bad for my sugar baby business.
In addition, we all know that a sugar daddy's love is a code for restricting the money and his support.
Oh I would give anything to have a Casanova, Don Juan, St. Germain, or Randolph Paschal Beverly type of sugar daddy. Those guys were all about the money, experience, and good time. I desire complicated and elaborate complex arrangements with several different dark triad men. Well,It is time to step up my sugar baby game

 

[June_Deni]

my womb hurts!
First day in a new place spent crying and trying to avoid heart attack...read this and cheer me up pls.
We had to pay 2 rents extra the first month, in case something happened to the flat, that we would be given back if we returned flat in a good condition. I agreed to share flat with my bf´s ex booss (they also had casual sex before we moved in, but that´s a different story and we got open relationship) She was making lots of money, and paying 3 rents in 1st month was undoable for us,so we agreed that she´d send it before 15th as required by landlords and we´d send it to her account when we got our pay checks, on 16th. We´d safe and next months we would send it even before 15th, but it´s easier for landlords to just get the money in 1 payment.
3 months ago: we didn´t see her at home very much, we knew she had alcohol problems, probably staying with her parents, drinking with her mom..2 months ago:she didn´t pay the rent after the 3 of us sent our portion to her account. She wouldn´t pick up calls nor react to messages.We even visited her parent´s house:we´ve been told she´s asleep. So we paid the rent again. We still hoped she will get it together and pay it back.She didn´t and kept ignoring us for upcoming 2 months. Landlords used her pre-paid money to cover her 2 months and would give us 1 month to move out. They would still give us 1 rent back. So we just had to get our money back from her somehow.
In the middle of month, landlords needed to show the flat to new people and asked us to clean up her room too. There were empty bottles from about 50 litres of wine hidden in drawers, wardrobes, in bed, everywhere. And cigarette butts and ashes everywhere, spoiled food everywhere, dead pot plants..incredible mess..So we cleaned it out, but there were some stains on the floor that wouldn´t go. Took us a whole day to clean that room..She still didnt reply to any messages.
Date of leaving was coming and no word from her,so we though we might as well pack at least some of her more valuable stuff and hopefully she would give us our money back in exchange for it. 2 days before everything had to be moved out, she wrote a message, that she will come to get her stuff on Friday (when our lease was up and we had to clean out the flat). We wrote her, that its great, but we also want our money back, that we will give her her stuff when she shows us the transfer screenshot. She said she´s coming with new bf and doesn´t want him to know about all this.
So we were nice, said hi and acted normal when they came to pack. I wanted to bring up the money, because she didnt seem interested in talking to us aout the rest of her stuff. And she said the car is full now and they will come back for the rest. They left without a word, left the keys, didnt wait for landlords to sign agreement, no money for us. Landlords found floor stains in her room and didnt give us our 1 rent back either-for repairs.
What a bummer..Its a lot of money for me..So we at least have some of her clothes and stuff, right..so we have to go twice to bring it all to our new place, texting her to finally send us our money, so we can give her back her stuff (that we were so nice to clean and pack before..)
Today, her mother gives us a phonecall that they will sue us for breaking into her room and stealing her stuff.. GREAAAAT.
And she wouldnt answer the phone all day. Then her sister writes us that some of her stuff is there too (how the fuck was I supposed to know?) we want her to tell us what exactly, that we will give it back,the sister is a nice person and her husband died last week, so we dont wanna cause her any trouble - and she doesnt even know..threatens us to bring it ALL back..yeah, and what about the debt, if we bring it back, we will never see our 2 months rent money back.


My period came painful like never, I don´t have balls for this.

What would you do?
Excuse my English, I am really upset and hurting.

 

[justjoinedtopost]

my womb hurts!
First day in a new place spent crying and trying to avoid heart attack...read this and cheer me up pls.
We had to pay 2 rents extra the first month, in case something happened to the flat, that we would be given back if we returned flat in a good condition. I agreed to share flat with my bf´s ex booss (they also had casual sex before we moved in, but that´s a different story and we got open relationship) She was making lots of money, and paying 3 rents in 1st month was undoable for us,so we agreed that she´d send it before 15th as required by landlords and we´d send it to her account when we got our pay checks, on 16th. We´d safe and next months we would send it even before 15th, but it´s easier for landlords to just get the money in 1 payment.
3 months ago: we didn´t see her at home very much, we knew she had alcohol problems, probably staying with her parents, drinking with her mom..2 months ago:she didn´t pay the rent after the 3 of us sent our portion to her account. She wouldn´t pick up calls nor react to messages.We even visited her parent´s house:we´ve been told she´s asleep. So we paid the rent again. We still hoped she will get it together and pay it back.She didn´t and kept ignoring us for upcoming 2 months. Landlords used her pre-paid money to cover her 2 months and would give us 1 month to move out. They would still give us 1 rent back. So we just had to get our money back from her somehow.
In the middle of month, landlords needed to show the flat to new people and asked us to clean up her room too. There were empty bottles from about 50 litres of wine hidden in drawers, wardrobes, in bed, everywhere. And cigarette butts and ashes everywhere, spoiled food everywhere, dead pot plants..incredible mess..So we cleaned it out, but there were some stains on the floor that wouldn´t go. Took us a whole day to clean that room..She still didnt reply to any messages.
Date of leaving was coming and no word from her,so we though we might as well pack at least some of her more valuable stuff and hopefully she would give us our money back in exchange for it. 2 days before everything had to be moved out, she wrote a message, that she will come to get her stuff on Friday (when our lease was up and we had to clean out the flat). We wrote her, that its great, but we also want our money back, that we will give her her stuff when she shows us the transfer screenshot. She said she´s coming with new bf and doesn´t want him to know about all this.
So we were nice, said hi and acted normal when they came to pack. I wanted to bring up the money, because she didnt seem interested in talking to us aout the rest of her stuff. And she said the car is full now and they will come back for the rest. They left without a word, left the keys, didnt wait for landlords to sign agreement, no money for us. Landlords found floor stains in her room and didnt give us our 1 rent back either-for repairs.
What a bummer..Its a lot of money for me..So we at least have some of her clothes and stuff, right..so we have to go twice to bring it all to our new place, texting her to finally send us our money, so we can give her back her stuff (that we were so nice to clean and pack before..)
Today, her mother gives us a phonecall that they will sue us for breaking into her room and stealing her stuff.. GREAAAAT.
And she wouldnt answer the phone all day. Then her sister writes us that some of her stuff is there too (how the fuck was I supposed to know?) we want her to tell us what exactly, that we will give it back,the sister is a nice person and her husband died last week, so we dont wanna cause her any trouble - and she doesnt even know..threatens us to bring it ALL back..yeah, and what about the debt, if we bring it back, we will never see our 2 months rent money back.


My period came painful like never, I don´t have balls for this.

What would you do?
Excuse my English, I am really upset and hurting.

read it. Wow, sounds like a lot of stress there.

I don't know, but you might never get the money. Even if you have her stuff. Maybe if stress is getting to be too much, it is better just to consider you will never collect. Maybe call/message and say "I'm putting your stuff outside right now, come and get it if you want it, maybe you will get here before somebody steals it".

I think I must have heard a dozen stories over the years like this, bad roomates and people winding up holding other peoples stuff.

 

[June_Deni]

read it. Wow, sounds like a lot of stress there.

I don't know, but you might never get the money. Even if you have her stuff. Maybe if stress is getting to be too much, it is better just to consider you will never collect. Maybe call/message and say "I'm putting your stuff outside right now, come and get it if you want it, maybe you will get here before somebody steals it".

I think I must have heard a dozen stories over the years like this, bad roomates and people winding up holding other peoples stuff.

thank you,I actually felt better the moment I posted it here,sharing helps
I will just go to sleep now and just will be the sensitive emotional beeing I am these days and let my boyfriend deal with it tomorrow.
I probably could make that money if I worked really hard for a week or 2 on cam (which seems tricky in a new place, with people being around all the time) , I just don´t know how to accept the injustice.

Anyway. Thank you for the good vibrations

 

[uncoveredmanhole]

In all fairness, people have sex for different reasons but many sex workers say this because it has became a bit strange for customers to want more of emotional connection now.

to clarify, in my post I meant 'they' the model making such a statement.

 

[DonaDiabla]

Actually, my post is still irrelevant because she is not the only one to say such things. Many sex workers across many forums have share this sentiment including myself. Thus, I was explaining why many sex workers including the model in question would such things. If you work in this industry for more than 3 years, you would start to understand this statement a bit more

to clarify, in my post I meant 'they' the model making such a statement.

 

[LucyRider]

I live in a tiny ass town with shitty internet options. I love living here, but the fact that my highest upload speed here is .81 mbps absolutely kills me. I used to make $300/day when I lived at my moms and had a great internet connection, and now I'm barely scraping by.

I feel you on this thunderstorms cut out my internet so frequently that today i just went ahead and featured them in my show ... make me cum before the thunder comes ... was a bit funner laughing about it but STILL! lol

 

[JuliaStorm]

Do you mean ExtraLunchMoney?

Yeah sorry. My bad. Was pissed off when i wrote that

 

[yummybrownfox]

when people say 'what happened to just jerking off?', I have to wonder what reasons they themselves have for having or wanting sex. Apparently they can't relate at all.

I will sometimes joke "What ever happened to just jerking off?" after reading some of the long-winded posts from guys who've spent 5 minutes in a model's room, and are already picking out China patterns and tuxedos. Lol. Or they're in some sort of stressful situation with a model that's causing them to lose sleep at night.

 

[justjoinedtopost]

Almost pulled out right in front of a motorcycle. Didn't even see him until the last second.

If you are going to ride at night, please light that damn thing up. One little dim headlight might have almost got you killed.

 

[deblackivory]

Had an intense argument with my husband about me continuing to be a sex worker instead of marketing. He told me that he thought I was just being a sex worker (I do maid themed escort) because I needed money.

I'm just soooooooooo so so so so offended!

Just needed to vent and scream because I'm frustrated. But we will work it out. Somehow.