Real racism is dead long ago.
Oh dear.
Are you aware of how much hate crime and murder happens to people to this day, in all kinds of countries? Usually as a black person, or a brown person, or a gay person or transgender or any kind of minority, the insult/slur is that much worse because it has happened to us before in a way that directly threatened our safety. Just as a former victim of child abuse may feel disgusted by ageplay because it reminds them of something from their past, some Angry Black Folk(TM) are so because we have been bullied, refused jobs, beaten up, raped because of our race and someone's idea of what it is. Some of us personally know and are related to others who've experienced any of the above or even been murdered. Some of us can be genuinely afraid to do certain things or be in certain situations (for example - a lot of young black men in the US are actually afraid to run for a bus in case a policeman thinks they've stolen something and shoots them dead) because of racism.
Now don't get me wrong - there has been a heck of a lot of progress in the world. But respectfully, you as a white individual will never know what it's like to live it - just as a man will never know misogyny as you face it, and I as a mixed-race person will never know the worst of colorism - because you can pick it up and put it down as you please. You can talk about it and read about it and educate yourself about it, but if you want to go to the shops without getting dirty looks or apply for a job without being discriminated against or go on MFC without having to worry about racial slurs and fetishes on top of the other crap that camgirls usually face, you CAN. So please don't say that real racism is dead. It's not your place to say so.
Well, they actually do. And that's why I think those people need help. I feel nothing but compassion about them.
If they rape children, of course they deserve to be punished. But what should they do if they don't? How to fight yourself?
By the way I heard about some guy who created a forum for those pedophiles who didn't do anything illegal and are looking for help to tame their bad nature. And I think that's what the goverment should do.
And what would you do if you were sexually attracted by children? Can you imagine how miserable your whole life would be?
3 things...
1) A person can't help what they're attracted to, no. This is something I firmly believe and agree with you on. But being ATTRACTED to black/brown/Asian/etc people and FETISHIZING them are different things. My boyfriend, for example, has mostly been with brown girls in the past and finds various traits associated with it attractive. But he has never said anything about 'nigger pussy' or me wanting his 'big white cock' or any shit like that. Men who come to my room on MFC will sometimes ask me about my heritage and they might say something about how that's a good thing, but they will get banned if they straight up decide that they can use any slurs because of that or degrade me in any way.
2) You are essentially proving your own point here - a pedophile is someone who's attracted to children, not necessarily someone who acts on it. Someone who acts on it is a much worse entity than someone who is attracted to children but realises it and keeps a handle on themselves. So why is it so hard for men who are attracted to other races to keep a handle on it and not just impose it on the first black girl they see?
3) Children and non-white people are not the same thing. A person can be one of those, neither or both. But the big difference is the fact that children are unable to consent as their minds are fundamentally different to those of adults, whereas black/brown/Asian/mixed people's minds are, in fact, the same as white people's minds. So in that manner, a comparison can't really be drawn.
I didn't want to offend you, sorry if I did. But tell me, what about people who fetishize humiliation and violence?
aaaand thank your for calling me ignorant. Now that's offensive. See, I don't know you, but it seems your aggressive nature provokes other people to insult you. Sorry, but the color of your skin has nothing to do with that.
Fetishizing humiliation and violence is essentially what this is. Meaning, if the individual you are fetishizing is okay with that, then it's fine. But consider - if a man assumes all women are okay with being degraded for the fact that they are women, that is sexist of him. If a woman is okay with that, or is turned on by it, and the man makes sure of this before he springs it on her, then it's all well and good. But we don't want to be humiliated/dominated/etc just because we're women. That shows a lack of respect.
Samira doesn't have an aggressive nature... you said something very offensive. Please see the top of this comment. Ultimately it comes down to the implications of what is being said to a non-white camgirl - chances are if it's a non-white who's lived somewhere they haven't experienced much racism, it won't matter a whole lot to them. But a lot of us are in the US, UK and Europe, where we do experience racism on a daily basis and sometimes it does actually threaten our lives, and that's what you invoke when you fetishize us.
I'm just trying to explain. You said in your first comment here that race based domination is okay and that we shouldn't make such a big deal of it basically - but you are talking about something that you will never experience to the same extent. A non-white guy may come to your room and say something about liking white women in a fetishy way, and I imagine that'd make you uncomfortable - now take that and have it remind you of other shit that you and people close to you may have experienced elsewhere.
