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For 7 months in 2017, I was following a model on MFC. I was a generous tipper and we started talking offline on Twitter DM. We became online friends (not romantic). I trusted this model and enjoyed chatting with her. After about 5 months, her male room helper started messaging me about how this model wanted to visit me in person in a major city near where I live. He said the model liked me and wanted to meet me in person. He then went as far as to suggest she wanted to perform sexual acts with me. He told me I had to tip 100,000 tokens ($8000) for a DATE. Instead of one night for dinner she would stay about 5 nights in the city. I was to spend at least 3 days with her sightseeing, dining, shopping and then sex at her hotel. The room helper also told me I would need to pay for her airfare, hotel, ground transportation, meals, museums and other tourist attractions. The total expense to me including the 100,000 token tip and all I just listed cam to $15,000 - $20,000. I was repeatedly solicited by her room helper to tip for this Date Week. He kept telling me how the model really wanted to visit me. He would keep updating me on the nature of the sex acts she would perform with me. I have a real life girlfriend and after thinking it over I decided I could not cheat on her with this model sexually and I did not want to spend $15,000 or more on this "visit". Later on the cam model did admit she actually did want to visit me in person. I declined this offer from the model and room helper and said I was not interested. In about 3 days, I got a message from the model (after 7 months of chatting) that she understood if I wanted to move on to another model and not follow her anymore. So she was basically saying she would understand if we were no longer friends anymore. I found the timing of this message suspicious since I had just said NO to the $15,000 Date. Shortly after, she told me she could no longer talk to me daily on Twitter DM because she was too overwhelmed to do so. So basically she was ending our 7 month friendship. I am a naive and trusting person, perhaps too trusting but this whole situation made me really suspicious of the model and her room helper. I feel as if I was being played. I have been on MFC since September 2015 and was a great customer always buying lot of tokens. I am upset that this model used the MFC platform to attempt this scam if in fact it was a scam. MFC provides no means for me to post an official complaint against this model who in effect was offering to be an escort with some sort of sexual contact promised. I really feel my trust and friendship with this model was taken advantage of. It was a very hurtful experience to be honest since I considered her a friend. I dislike that MFC does not allow me to report this model and to get her off of MFC before she can do this to another guy. MFC allows the models to do whatever they want with no means of reporting their behavior. In this case is sounded like escorting and prostitution. I am wondering if anyone has experienced this with a cam model on MFC or any comments or suggestions. I tried to message the cam model to tell her of the actions of the room helper and she became very angry with me accusing me of being a liar. I could not make this up and why would I? This is the truth.
 
What is there to report? Was she involved in the offer? Or just the helper dude? If she didn't offer sex for money in clear terms, she's not breaking any laws. If she offered you a date, and you turned it down, she's allowed to move on with her time. Most people don't keep talking after they get rejected money or not. What do you feel you're the victim of here? What is it that you were naive and trusting about?
 
she was ending our 7 month friendship

Wasn't a friendship. You was just paying her online friendship for 7 months. Is it a coincidence that once the tokens stop dropping the online friendship also comes to an end? Don't think so. Would you call this also a "scam"? Lesson learned I guess. Move on. My 2 cents
 
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Helper was probably her husband..
 
I can't be arsed to read all of it but is it any more complicated and nuanced than "model's room helper who may or may not be her husband essentially tried to pimp model out to member for 100,000 tokens but member heroically declined offer because he had a girlfriend and is now doubting whether or not he'd have actually got the date he was offered and the sex that was implied in room helper/husband/pimp's offer and whether he should now report the two of them"?
 
I can't be arsed to read all of it but is it any more complicated and nuanced than "model's room helper who may or may not be her husband essentially tried to pimp model out to member for 100,000 tokens but member heroically declined offer because he had a girlfriend and is now doubting whether or not he'd have actually got the date he was offered and the sex that was implied in room helper/husband/pimp's offer and whether he should now report the two of them"?

Im not a super MFC expert but it seems to me that what some models are selling there is a sort of an "online friendship experience". That's cool. Nothing wrong. That's their "hustle" as you may call it. I believe the problem is that some of the MFC guys fails to recognize what models are selling and what they are buying but then come to the forum blaming models because they aren't their friend anymore. Makes no sense, you are not buying, so they are not delivering. I have to say that I haven't seen yet guys from other sites coming here to complain. Maybe because guys from other sites are much more aware of what they are buying. I don't know. Just a thought that I got. Hope makes sense.
 
Im not a super MFC expert but it seems to me that what some models are selling there is a sort of an "online friendship experience". That's cool. Nothing wrong. That's their "hustle" as you may call it. I believe the problem is that some of the MFC guys fails to recognize what models are selling and what they are buying but then come to the forum blaming models because they aren't their friend anymore. Makes no sense, you are not buying, so they are not delivering. I have to say that I haven't seen yet guys from other sites coming here to complain. Maybe because guys from other sites are much more aware of what they are buying. I don't know. Just a thought that I got. Hope makes sense.
MFC tends to be more community based and interactive beyond just sexy times so I think that opens the door to this more than other sites. Just a guess on my part. Could also be that they just happen to find MFC before the other sites and being new to sex workers aren't really educated on GFE (or OFE as you said, I like that term) and end up thinking something that is fantasy is real.
 
This was difficult to read (in more ways than one). I wish you had posted this in paragraphs. That's almost as bad as when folks post everything in all CAPS.

And damn, dude. If you're really ballin' like that, why don't you just become a sugar daddy (Find you a local sugar baby) or something? I'd love it if I had a local Daddy Warbucks paying my rent. Shiiiiit...
 
15k seems pretty steep for a few days. That pussy better make diamonds when it cums or no deal


Haha. You seem to talk about pussy a lot in your posts. Lmao.
 
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(or OFE as you said, I like that term)

Ok, thanks. I just made it up actually and I don't even know if it makes sense. OFE, to be honest, I don't like how it sounds, sucks big time, not catchy at all. I'd come up with/put some "X" in it, If I had to make it a brand or something. Anyway I think the guy is not here anymore. So, sorry If I bumped the thread in some way, I am just replying to your quote.
 
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