Members of camsites... sexuality vs. masterbation

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I question for those who are members of camsites. Do you only look for girls who's shows are all about masterbating or would you rather a camgirl with a personality & sexuality who's show is based around trasing and then taking it all off???
 
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I definitely enjoy the masterbation aspect of the site. And clearly have popped into a models room because of it.

But really any model that I frequent it's more likely from her overall presentation versus just the masterbation stuff.
 
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If you spend all your time masturbating, you will get people who will pop in, blow their wad and then leave. Besides, you'll probably get sore eventually, and that's not healthy.

Teasing and chatting will keep people in your room, and invite them to engage with you. The longer people are engaged, the more welcoming your room will be to others and the more likely members are to spend money, which is the whole point.
 
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I can go to any porn site and watch videos of girls jilling off all day, but in the end it's just wasted time. The turn-on for me is a combination of a model's personality, her sensualness, and her sexuality. Now I wouldn't condone a model for just wanting to get herself off, I mean sure, I'd love to be there with her when she does; we all have those urges. Yet for me it's those characteristics I mentioned, and when the time does come that she does "takes it all off" it seems more personal to me...and hopefully for her, as well.

I hope that makes sense and in some ways answers your questions.
 

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I tend to look for someone who has fun and is uninhibited with what they do or at least someone I feel wants to be that way. I dislike models who manipulate members sexuality too much for their own gain.
In practical terms I will tip anyone that appeals to me, but only revisit or continue to tip models who are generous and open with their sexuality. If she likes and is good at teasing, dirty talk, dancing, spanks, squirting, or sliding raffle tickets inside her bra (you know who you are) I will tend to go for that thing on a revisit.

I think models should go for what they are passionate about, be a little brave, explore some of the fantasies they inspire in others, and to be open to being rewarded for that. This doesn't always involve just giving the member what they ask for, but learning what will excite them most when it comes to experiencing you.

Thinking on the OP's question I would suggest that they are the same for me personally, your sexuality is part of your persona on cam and vice versa. I took it as more a question about timing and rhythm within a show, it is probably easier to just go with the flow, readjusting what works and doesn't as you get the opportunity. Eventually you will find the right balance.
You can take it so slow that you barely tease (non-nude), or rip it all off fast and just go for it, I see no distinction between them; to do them well takes the same types of involvement with their members. For example, good non-nude models don't exclude masturbation shows because they cannot do them (many ultimately do at some point), they just know they are better at maintaining sexual tension than releasing it.
 
If you want me to become a regular, it needs to be personality and sexiness. Straight masturbation is fine, I guess, but honestly, I have bought plenty of clips for that. The interaction, leading to the tease, leading to the show... it's all more fun that way.
 
Nice to hear from members to improve myself. I try to do both but more personality I want everyone to have fun and I want to get to know everyone not just get off. Thanks for the insight.
 
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Nice to hear from members to improve myself. I try to do both but more personality I want everyone to have fun and I want to get to know everyone not just get off. Thanks for the insight.

Yup. I used to work in retail. I built loyal customers because I actually cared about them. My personality, especially humor, memorizing their needs and wants. I am bad with names but as long I could remember what they wanted from last time was great.
 
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I question for those who are members of camsites. Do you only look for girls who's shows are all about masterbating or would you rather a camgirl with a personality & sexuality who's show is based around trasing and then taking it all off???
Depends on the girl. I will say I do not enjoy public masturbation shows, I prefer to go private. For me at least, that is just the way like it, not knocking the girls that do it just my personal preference. I will say I tend to frequent rooms where the model is more talkative and it doesn't really matter if she is bitching about something or just chatting up the room, it just keeps it interesting because I come on cam sites all the time and MFC in particular to just hang out so to speak, I rarely come here for "porn needs." People say this isn't a dating site and they are quite right in respects to most of the models, but it can be in respect to members as from experience, and it is most definitely a social site on so many levels. So I can go either way I may not watch a public masturbation show but that does not mean that I am not in there talking to the model when they are just shooting the shit and hanging out, I tip just to hang, the rest of it I can take it or leave it personally. I just like talking and hanging out with a sensual sexy girl that isn't a jerk, which I am sure models expect their members to be respectful and not a jerk as well, it all goes hand in hand, the model does control her room and her space on a cam site, but if they have an attitude or they get really snobbish or ban people for stupid things, people will just guest if they want to watch that model or just not come at all and stop tipping, like I said it just depends on the person, what they are like, how chill they are, whether or not you and that model "mesh" or not, because hook up site or not, models don't like some members and some members do not like some models, for me a bad attitude or a sense of superiority over members or people in general or just a snobbish attitude will have me click the next model button without a blink, but I do not associate with people that carry themselves in that way off the interwebs either. I tend to watch a wide variety of models, the only ones I do not watch are the ones that just turn the cam on, say hardly nothing with their breast hanging out, its just boring. Either way I love MFC and a lot of the models on that site. In the end I must always realize I am a guest in someone else's "house" so to speak, so its either hang and be cool to them or bail out but don't sit there and be a douche or try to troll someone trying to make a living, thats lame. I am a firm believer that if you watch a model on a regular basis then you support that model, freeloading again is lame, but hey I am just an avatar with an opinion here.
 
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Thanks so much for all of y'all who are commenting to my question! I ask because I've been a camgirl since October 2015 and strictly did couple shows. I am very talkative and enjoy Q&A with everyone in the room, as well as tell stories. My bf & I really gained an amazing following & we have been very sucessful and have had a blast the entire time! But he said it was all me & he thinks I'm just naturally talented at camming. He says my sex appeal & personality makes our show great. Well... I'm branching out into solo shows and Im not one to just masterbate like I see alot of other girls doing. I'm more about the interaction w/ everyone in the room; as well as making it fun! I want it to be a party but still keeping it sexy & entertaining. I really wanted feedback because I was unsure if doing my solo shows like I have always done my couple shows was going to work or not. Of course in couple shows my bf & I do all kinds of stuff... you name it we do it, but that is us together. I'm def taking a big step going solo. I'm excited but at the same time I want to be successful & always be the best and give more than 100% at anything I do. It definitely makes me feel better after reading yalls comments! Thank y'all again so much! And any suggestions & tips y'all have for me in this solo venture... send them my way.
 
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I've spent a fair amount of time and way too much money on cam sites (mostly MFC) and can honestly say I've never seen a cum show. I'm there for the conversation, the tease, the camaraderie and the lingerie. Whereas when most guys wait eagerly for the panties to come off, I'm disappointed when they do!
 
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