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Hi ladies,

We have that community for Lovense users, strictly amateurs - non-cam models. It looks like 70% of audience are men seeking to be used by strong women. Yes, you ladies!

If you are that type of person, please help those poor bastards :) You don't have to have Lovense product, you just need a phone... The rest is your imagination :)

Yeah, but seriously, if you dominatrix type, there are audience waiting for you on https://lovenseme.com

Have fun girls and stay safe! Peace! :)
 
So uhhhh will I be getting paid?
 
I think you just invented a new website.

I hope so. I'll happily do this for payment. But by the sounds of the OP "amateur only no cam models." They want us to go there and do it for free.

Which... Lol... No.
 
I hope so. I'll happily do this for payment. But by the sounds of the OP "amateur only no cam models." They want us to go there and do it for free.

Which... Lol... No.

Honestly you could probable do that on any platform. I mean just require people to go into private on cam site of choice. play with controls till they bow out of private. Could probable get longer privates by edging.

Some cam platforms like flirt4free, already have toy control for kiiroo toys. Both as a group broadcast or one on one. No need to exchange account into.
 
Honestly you could probable do that on any platform. I mean just require people to go into private on cam site of choice. play with controls till they bow out of private. Could probable get longer privates by edging.

Some cam platforms like flirt4free, already have toy control for kiiroo toys. Both as a group broadcast or one on one. No need to exchange account into.

My platform doesn't allow offsite contact so I can't use the lovense app with members. I can only send them model control links.

So that did not occur to me lol.
 
So uhhhh will I be getting paid?
It really depends how you arrange it, but come one, have you been on Twitter, plenty of findomme... :happy:

We just give you another channel of possibilities and we like to listen to our audience and react.
Meaning, they are in pain :nurse:, they don't know how to find Domme who will treat them how they should be treated :blackeye: lol

PS. think about it, they already spent money on Lovense product...
 
I hope so. I'll happily do this for payment. But by the sounds of the OP "amateur only no cam models." They want us to go there and do it for free.

Which... Lol... No.
I think @dustGirl means that 70% of the strictly amateur, non cam model community referenced in the link, are guys looking for dommes. You can most certainly make money doing that and as @dustGirl also mentioned, they already have the desired product. Hope that clears it up a bit, if there was still any confusion :)
 
I’m a cam model who provides Domme as my main services and wouldn’t do it for free. Time is money.

This sounds more like a perfect idea for vanilla couples trying to spice up their relationship. Dommes are busy catching the dough, creating content, going to sessions(if they provide) and tending to their slaves/subs. Very busy life.

I mean, it potentially could work if advertised on websites like FetLife, which nowadays have strict rules to service providers, mostly looking down on us, but not in a place in which cam girls share tips on how to create a better service for their customers and themselves.

And the way you commented about Findommes was very condescending @dustGirl. Everyone has different kinks or offer different services. And a lot of people do look for them, that’s why they exist. Your website’s idea would actually fit real good for FinDom. Make it vibe for gold.
 
Sometimes I feel bad for submissive men. Even in places where nobody should be taking their money, people are trying to take their money :( Yes, I love doing shows/calls with submissive men, but I feel for them too, you know? Poor muffins.
 
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Sometimes I feel bad for submissive men. Even in places where nobody should be taking their money, people are trying to take their money :( Yes, I love doing shows/calls with submissive men, but I feel for them too, you know? Poor muffins.

If this was being advertised somewhere else, I'd agree. But it's been put on a forum full of professionals who want to get paid for their time.

Also, as a sub - I'm out to take money from dominant men just as much.
 
I think @dustGirl means that 70% of the strictly amateur, non cam model community referenced in the link, are guys looking for dommes. You can most certainly make money doing that and as @dustGirl also mentioned, they already have the desired product. Hope that clears it up a bit, if there was still any confusion :)
Thank you @oowapp you couldn't say it more clear.

Look for example on this guy's posts: https://lovenseme.com/?s=Frank69
I see potential and that's is just an example. I know it's a business and they know it too...

I wasn't super clear with this, which I apologise for that.
 
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No, to be honest we started this website to find other kinksters.
My boyfriend created this website. We have amazing feedback, people actually thanked for that site because finally they manage to find someone.

But like I said we had other feedbacks from this community, one of it is lack of Domme ladies who would take care of sub guys, that's why I'm here.
 
So the site is basically an advertisement platform that people can use to sell their Domme services to people looking for a Domme lovense session?
 
but come one, have you been on Twitter, plenty of findomme... :happy:

And for every findom on Twitter, there's 25 subs who expect to just talk about findom for free, and have no intention of paying.
 
And for every findom on Twitter, there's 25 subs who expect to just talk about findom for free, and have no intention of paying.

Exactly @SaffronBurke, and here (on Lovenseme) you have a group of people, that you should expect that can afford to buy Lovense products, so they might be able to pay for other pleasures... I'm don't want to be a pimp here or any business advisor; I think there is an easier way to find on Lovenseme website people who can spend more money on pleasures that on twitter. It can be true, it can also be false, but you will not know if you won't try it :)
 
Sometimes I feel bad for submissive men. Even in places where nobody should be taking their money, people are trying to take their money :( Yes, I love doing shows/calls with submissive men, but I feel for them too, you know? Poor muffins.

yah, but this is like walking into a strip club and trying to sell the strippers on giving away their dances for free at the dance club next door.
 
Exactly @SaffronBurke, and here (on Lovenseme) you have a group of people, that you should expect that can afford to buy Lovense products, so they might be able to pay for other pleasures... I'm don't want to be a pimp here or any business advisor; I think there is an easier way to find on Lovenseme website people who can spend more money on pleasures that on twitter. It can be true, it can also be false, but you will not know if you won't try it :)

Just because they're willing to spend money on expensive toys, doesn't mean they'll pay women to entertain them. After all, they can just log onto any number of social sites and find someone willing to chat for free. After all, how many dudes drop lots of money on video games but refuse to pay for porn because they think it's stupid to? The answer is tons of them.
 
wow, @SaffronBurke I didn't think in that way, what does the statistic say? But it's weird I saw many domme Twitter accounts with screenshots of payments from subs, sounds like it's a profitable business. Well, you definitely opened my eyes, thanks. But do you know what can we do about it?

Hmm but even now I remember that article about statistics in pirating videos/movies - that people who mostly pirate online are also the biggest group willing to pay for entertainment: Netflix, iTunes movies, etc. Sorry, I don't have that article to prove it. I know I know sex business is different, maybe taboo is the problem like they link it's wrong...
 
There have been multiple studies which have shown that if you make certain entertainment media affordable and easy to access then many people who pirate will be happy to use them. Of course there will always be those hardcore people who just don't want to pay for anything and would rather go through to hassle of finding it for free online.
 
I saw many domme Twitter accounts with screenshots of payments from subs
No one is saying that it isn't profitable. I think the thing we are all confused about is that your site says nothing about paying for services provided, which leads me personally to believe that the people using your site aren't going to be looking for "pay to play" sessions.
 
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wow, @SaffronBurke I didn't think in that way, what does the statistic say? But it's weird I saw many domme Twitter accounts with screenshots of payments from subs, sounds like it's a profitable business. Well, you definitely opened my eyes, thanks. But do you know what can we do about it?

Hmm but even now I remember that article about statistics in pirating videos/movies - that people who mostly pirate online are also the biggest group willing to pay for entertainment: Netflix, iTunes movies, etc. Sorry, I don't have that article to prove it. I know I know sex business is different, maybe taboo is the problem like they link it's wrong...

And they found those subs either on a camsite or a clipsite, not some random forum about sex toys. Dudes on sites where it's free to interact with people, like Twitter or Fetlife, often don't feel that they should have to pay for "just talking".
 
Just because they're willing to spend money on expensive toys, doesn't mean they'll pay women to entertain them. After all, they can just log onto any number of social sites and find someone willing to chat for free. After all, how many dudes drop lots of money on video games but refuse to pay for porn because they think it's stupid to? The answer is tons of them.

Yep, another way to look at it is they buy the game console so the potential is there. But, if they're unwilling (or financially unable) to pay for the online subscription service or purchase additonal games there's no sense in trying to market to them. They have to want to go beyond the initial purchase price. It's not just buy once and be done. If they want to do that, then it's Craig'sList, Reddit, or other online communities where they can get it for free.

The risk is kinda like a glory hole, never know what's on the other side controlling the button. If that doesn't bother them, or if they accept that they think the person is who they say they are, cool. But, if you want something specific and know it, then gotta pay for it.
 
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