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I don't talk verbally often because.. ya know... I'm deaf?

Then to be begged over and over and over for me to use my voice like oiii, dude.
Would you shut up if I gag myself and you realize I don't want to talk because it's exhausting?
 
I can't even fathom why people take unfollows SO SERIOUSLY.


I unfollowed a friend (model) of mine because she was posting dozens of blocks of tweets with all of her videos and profile links. Not because I disliked her anymore, just because it was too difficult for me to scroll past it all in my timeline. However, I woke up this morning to see a message from her on Snapchat asking for an explanation, but I couldn't give her one since she had apparently rage-blocked me on both Snapchat and Twitter.

I will never understand humans. You can't ask for an adult explanation if you just proceed to block future communication.
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For future reference, you can just mute her :) that way no one's feelings get hurt.
 
I, personally, don't mind black socks with shorts. You're exactly right that they're better than the white tube socks, but I don't see a problem with them otherwise. Many men don't feel comfortable in the 'shorties' socks (the ones that stop at or below your ankle). So why sacrifice comfort for looks? We women do it everyday because we're expected to. But men have so much more freedom and nonjudgement when it comes to things like that. Let's keep it that way. Wear what you want, let others wear what they want, and let's stop trying to harness peoples' creativity and comfort choices.


(I wasn't trying to be bitchy or argue just for the sake of arguing, @n_i_c_u . I genuinely am jealous everyday that men can do/wear so much without judgement whereas women can't. But that jealousy is GOOD. We should all be so lucky. I just think criticizing a man's sock choices is going in reverse. Just food for thought.)

I personally wear black or grey ankle or low profile socks for most day to day wear. I like the darker colors and abhor long socks for anything other than yard work or hiking out into the woods with bugs and pokey things.

I do have issues with the very low, no-show socks: I've had blisters and pain in my Achilles' tendons from poor shoe and sock combinations.


It probably comes off weird; but myself I get mild jealousy when seeing women getting to wear really nice fabrics, dresses, skirts, and there being no culturally accepted male/men's version, or at least one that wouldn't get me labeled as a deviant or call into question either my manhood or sexual preferences
 
I personally wear black or grey ankle or low profile socks for most day to day wear. I like the darker colors and abhor long socks for anything other than yard work or hiking out into the woods with bugs and pokey things.

I do have issues with the very low, no-show socks: I've had blisters and pain in my Achilles' tendons from poor shoe and sock combinations.


It probably comes off weird; but myself I get mild jealousy when seeing women getting to wear really nice fabrics, dresses, skirts, and there being no culturally accepted male/men's version, or at least one that wouldn't get me labeled as a deviant or call into question either my manhood or sexual preferences

There's especially a lot of options for women for summer clothes, even in the office. My office is fairly casual but even at places a bit more formal, ladies can sometimes get away with tank-top dresses or light blouses. Dudes definitely have a lot less choice in that realm.

Though I'm jealous of dudes who can go shirtless on hot days :D
 
I can't even fathom why people take unfollows SO SERIOUSLY.


I unfollowed a friend (model) of mine because she was posting dozens of blocks of tweets with all of her videos and profile links. Not because I disliked her anymore, just because it was too difficult for me to scroll past it all in my timeline. However, I woke up this morning to see a message from her on Snapchat asking for an explanation, but I couldn't give her one since she had apparently rage-blocked me on both Snapchat and Twitter.

I will never understand humans. You can't ask for an adult explanation if you just proceed to block future communication.
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I think I've mentioned before, I think I know which model this is. And yes, I have a similar issue. I understand many tweets are advertising for sales, to drum up interests, to get new regulars. But really, there is only so many pictures of blatant vulva, peeing in a cup, urination in pants, and complaining about regulars, before I just have to mentally block out everything, quit, or watch t.v.

Couple that with having bought snapchat from her and now that is filled with the same stuff, plus constant complaints about all her regulars. I get she was in an accident, and is struggling, but rendering all her social media as places nobody wants to be cannot be helping her stay afloat
 
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and there being no culturally accepted male/men's version, or at least one that wouldn't get me labeled as a deviant or call into question either my manhood or sexual preferences
That's one of the things I remember thinking when I stole my grandmothers stockings.

It was dead of winter, I only had one pair of thermal underwear and they were dirty. My job was in an unheated environment. Lots of bending, squatting, crouching...layering had proved uncomfortable. So I gave the nylons a try one night. I had heard football players used pantyhose to keep warm, so why not.

Once I got to work it was a nagging worry, if something happened and I had to go to the emergency room what they were going to think.
 
Late Friday afternoon. I had an appointment at the close of business.

Left one hour early to deal with traffic. I watched my appointment time come and go on the interstate in the third traffic jam, my destination still some 30 miles away. They weren't going to still be open.

I said F*ck it, and turned around. Boom. Another accident up ahead. The traffic report let me know that some 20 miles ahead was another accident, a rollover. Aaaand here came the severe thunderstorms with hail reported. I got off the freeway and tried to take back roads I haven't been on in years. They were a congested nightmare.

So I didn't make my appointment, burned up 3/4 of a tank of gas, threw about 6 hours of my life away, and now almost 3 days later still feeling the ripple effects of that stress filled afternoon.
 
When article, blog or YouTube comments turn into pathetically transparent attempts to boast or advertise your own project, idea, skill set, whatever... Yeah. Hate that shit.

"Hey, that's really neat! It reminds me of my own [insert what might be considered a vaguely similar but much less impressive idea/machine/project/picture of your cat and a link to poorly produced video/photo/scribbled upon napkin] that I did just last year which didn't receive nearly as much attention (or any, judging by my 78 views and one thumbs up) that your idea is currently receiving. Great job!"

I get it dude... we all want a pat on the back sometimes. But shit, man... when Billy gets praised for cleaning up his desk at school, do you pipe up and brag to the teacher about how you cleaned the cat box at home? No, man! You let Billy put that fucking Gold Star on the board! And then next week you clean your own desk. But better. And then you produce a thoughtfully executed and highly polished behind-the-scenes video of how you made your own Eco-friendly cleanser to safely scrape the gum off the bottom of your fucking desk.
 
I don't talk verbally often because.. ya know... I'm deaf?

Then to be begged over and over and over for me to use my voice like oiii, dude.
Would you shut up if I gag myself and you realize I don't want to talk because it's exhausting?

Yeah, it's pretty annoying when the begging starts, after the 3rd time I just ignore them because it's a snoozefest!
I generally don't like speaking as I feel extreamly awkward about my voice. When I do talk I hear myself, then my words get all mixed up haha. I'll talk sometimes of course, I just don't like when people demand it.
 
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Suspect my long-time camgirl friend may also be an escort. Happened to be in the right place at the right time to see an exchange on aw between her and some dude in another language. Used ol' google translate and the conversation is pretty black and white.

Gently probed her about it and she got extremely defensive and making all kinds of illogical reasons for why she was saying what she did and turned the convo back on me. Like I said, the exchange was black and white so I don't really know why she'd try to cover it up. It's not like I'm one to judge her or anything like that and I just get frustrated at things like that. She does cam, like, A LOT and usually at the hours you'd think an escort would be busy, in the night. But what I saw, there's not really much left to wonder lol. And I just asked because, we'll shit, maybe I'd be interested? She already knows I'm saving a decent chunk of change to go there anyway, so I don't really understand the big deal.

This other time I helped her out off-site because it sounded like she was in a pinch. I didn't really care about the cash, I had some extra I was going to spend on her anyway and I got some shows out of it too, so it was cool. But this other member was telling me she told him that she went on vacation and I was skeptical, but open. So he said he had some screenshots from facebook where she was tagged in a couple statuses and was in a couple of pictures of being on vacation during the time she told me she was at home. I asked for them, but told him to black out names because it's kinda fucked up he stalked her like that, but I was interested in his proof...She denied it in full, and ofc I didn't buy it. I told her, look you don't have to lie to me, I don't care about spending on you I've been a regular (and one of her high tippers) for some time and that wouldn't change. And it hasn't. What people do with their earnings is their business, but if something like that comes into the open, especially something as silly as that, then what's the big deal? I had to let it go because we just kept going in circles, even after I showed her the screenshots that dude sent me.

And I just had to get it off my chest. I know there's boundaries the girls have and I respect them. But if something comes out in the open..ie..talking to some guy in free chat on aw or telling other members where you went on vacation..then it just seems ridiculous to deny.

She's cool, gives me respect (had a rough patch about the whole vacation thing, but better now) and even trusted me enough to give me a show for x time even though I only had x tokens available and I told her I'd pay her the next day. (New MFC acct, daily spending limit, etc. so dumb I hate it) , but sometimes stuff like that happens and I just facepalm and have to let it go.

/endrant
 
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Thermostat is annoying the hell out of me. 72 I freeze my ass off. 74 too warm.

Don't bother to suggest I try 73. Already did. Whatever misery I am experiencing on 72/74, it is completely unaffected by 73.
 
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Thermostat is annoying the hell out of me. 72 I freeze my ass off. 74 too warm.

Don't bother to suggest I try 73. Already did. Whatever misery I am experiencing on 72/74, it is completely unaffected by 73.

I usually have the same thing with 22-24C. I think this converts exactly to your 72-74F. Maybe we are getting old and our bodies are getting annoying/ed. But I don't know what is going on tonight cause it's supposed to be 24C in here and I'm in sweatpants and a hoodie. Blerg.
 
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There have been days you amused me with your cleverness. Days I have marvelled at your mind. You have delighted me time and time again.

Then there are days like today. Days where I realize that any redeeming qualities you have are locked in a brain encased within a skull as thick as a cinderblock.

I clench my jaw, lest the word proasta escape my lips. My teeth are a dam; they hold back a swelling reservoir of frustration and annoyance.

I light my candle and stare into the flame. Just look at the flame...what do I see?...just take a deep breath, and look at the edges of it...focus on it...breathe...
 
I'm a caregiver full time. And damnit isn't it the worst when i pick up a patient to transfer to the toilet and she pisses on my foot in the transion of pulling down her pants. So now I have clean piss off of her, change her pants and pull up, clean the floor and wash my feet in the shower. I dont have kids.. But I do :) only 140 pounds heavier.
 
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I really need to rant about middle aged single women. Not all of them, just the ones who are really desperate to find a partner.

These people do not understand how to take a hint. And they don't understand that "not interested" means "I AM NOT F*CKING INTERESTED".

They approach your family members, trying to get help getting "fixed up". Yet when you send word back through the grapevine that it ain't happening, do they let it go? No. Hell no.

They aggressively try to make eye contact when you pass them by. Doesn't matter how obvious you are about avoiding their pleading gaze; they are not deterred in the slightest.

They knock on your door with transparent "icebreaker" questions, ranging from how busy the neighborhood is on Halloween, to whether or not you know of a good Italian restaurant nearby.

It is tragic that they squandered their youth and beauty. It is also tragic that what remained after those losses was not enough to help them avoid loneliness later in life.

But that is THEIR tragedy, not mine; and I would prefer they learn to cope with it without encroaching upon my comfort zones.

Thank you all for listening.
 
Went to the convenience store specifically for a Milyway Midnight... STORE HAD NO MILKYWAY FUCKING MIDNIGHTS! Burned store to the ground.
No. That's a lie. I settled for a Hershey's Cookies and Creme.
But goddamn,was I pissed.
Well, not really. But I was inconvenienced... by the FUCKING CONVENIENCE STORE!
 
I would like to rant about bad cam model names.I am all for creative cam model names but if you named yourself "Trash Dumpster" or "Trench Warfare" then you are just asking for trouble. I am not saying that you can't make money but how many guys are going to get a cam show from "Trench Warfare"? Come on, ladies and gentlemen! Let's take camming a bit more seriously. Trench Warfare is great for a heavy metal band or roller derby team but it is not proper for a handsome cam boy. Since he loves WWI so much, he could have named himself Red Baron or Stir Offensive ;)
 
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Recently tipped a model who was aiming for the top (biggest tip i've sent). It was for a date, she set the price, offered it, and we both chose the date. Well as you can guess, it never happened and she tried turning it around on me. I'm out $ and it sucks

I like this thread, feels good to get that off of my chest.
 
Last week, bought a loaf of bread. Within a couple days, mold all over it. Same thing happened again this week. Probably didn't make but two sandwiches out of either loaf.

I am not pleased.
 
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^Hey, same has been happening to me! And shredded cheese. Side note, check expiration dates extra careful, I've seen more beyond the sale date at more than one store.
Although the bread was not past the date.


This is either a happy time of year or a rough one, I hope either way you all have a good holiday!
 
Got scammed by another cam girl... wtf?! Told me she wld recommend me to the MFC Admin if i gave her my skype blah blah blah...so i did, and he got a free show then i found this forum. I expect bullshit from the guys but never saw it coming from another cam girl on mfc
 
by another cam girl...
Correction to this would be "someone I thought was a cam girl" because now you realize it was simply a greedy freeloading member pretending to be one to earn your trust". And it worked. :(
 
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*head desk* it just took me an hour to explain to my boss that, while I'd love to add an opt_out footer to the bottom of our emails, I can't because no one told me where they want me to add the column in the database, nor what they want it to do, if the footer is gonna be custom to each customer (not as hard as it sounds), or is it going to be list specific? I need to know these things before I can do anything in what I'm working on. Aka, I just spent time trying to pull information from my boss that he didn't know, and then he eventually pushed it up the ladder to his boss to get the clarification.

Ah, the life of a programmer.
 
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Got scammed by another cam girl... wtf?! Told me she wld recommend me to the MFC Admin if i gave her my skype blah blah blah...so i did, and he got a free show then i found this forum. I expect bullshit from the guys but never saw it coming from another cam girl on mfc
I get the same messages from some mfc model (what she claimed) begging me for my Skype. Then when I banned her she got pissed at me saying why would I do that when I was so nice to her? Um, I asked people nicely to not make requests w/o tips and wrote on my profile potential scammers would be banned. Yea, don't believe the hype. No cam girl should ask you for a free show b/c they wouldn't give one. Sorry to hear that :(
 
I just finished the last of the gravy from the holidays. I don't know why we are teased as humans--what is it in God's delight that allows our taste buds to experience bliss one second and utter emptiness the next? I actually did the one finger thing and canvased the plastic container it once held all its full brimming glory in.

Yes I could TRY and make my own, but, it wouldn't be the same. It is never the same.

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